Kathryn Alice's Blog

A MUST DO Right Now!! (Before 2012)

2011-12-29T14:31:00.000-08:00

Thursday, December 29th, 2012

I am in this 2012 release by Lionsgate. It's going to be a GREAT year!!

Hi! As 2011 is coming to a close, I have never seen more "stuff" coming up for those I work with. There's no doubt it is a big time of change. Expectations for 2012 are rightly HIGH, so it makes sense that things are on the move in our lives.

There has never been a more important time to do what needs to be done, so keep reading to find out what I mean by that.

Meanwhile, if you have not done so yet, sign up for the FREE intention-setting teleseminar I'm doing next week. You will find out how to capitalize on the energy of change that is in the air to zoom into what you want in 2012. To gain access to this free event, sign up here.

And LAST CHANCE for the 9 pay option for our June 2012 Teacher Training is TOMORROW. If you are at all interested, check it out now while you can get a low payment plan and substantial discount. I’m training & certifying a small group to formally teach my work as a career move. If you have any thoughts of being in that select group, check it out TODAY here.

This career path is unlike others that are similar because you gain my tutelage, support & referrals for YEARS to come plus a business blueprint that I have never seen another training TOUCH.

Read on to find out what you can do THIS WEEK to leave any drama or limits behind once and for all. Have a great New Year's celebration, and I have high hopes for you in 2012.

I am blessing your holiday season!

love,
Kathryn

A MUST DO Right Now!

I have never seen so much drama and angst during the holidays. It makes sense in a weird way. Many of us believe that 2012 will be a banner year. I am sure this is true for you.

When you are going for BIG things in your life, anything UNLIKE it -- anything that might hinder or delay your manifestation -- will come up, just to be released. In that context, it makes sense that so many are experiencing what looks like discord, change or the end of something that is painful in their lives.

There's a great way to deal with this, perfect for right now, something that I urge you to do. Release before 2012 comes. It's something I do every year -- at sunset on New Year's Eve at the beach with a group of friends. You can do this alone or with a group. Here's how:

1) Write down every single thing you DON'T want to take into 2012: old experiences, bad habits, limits in your life, painful at tachments, tired patterns.

2) Take the piece(s) of paper where you listed your "releases," and shred them or burn them or both. As you do, say "I let you go!" If you're with friends, you can share what you're letting go or just gain their support without naming what it is you're releasing.

3) Seal the deal by stomping on the pieces or flushing the ashes/scraps down the toilet. This can be fun and silly (but effective).

You will feel different after undergoing this process: lighter, more free. Rituals work!

This is a powerful step of welcoming in the new. But there is further work to be done: replacing the old, the released with what you want in 2012. List your top goals, and do be there for my FREE intention-setting phone call next week. I'll show you how to set powerful intentions and make them happen. It's what has made so many of my dreams come true, and it h as worked for thousands of others, too.

To sign up for this free event & learn how to manifest BIG in 2012, click here.

Happy Holidays!! (a personal letter)

2011-12-21T11:59:00.000-08:00

Dec 21st, 2011

Happy holidays! I just wanted to dash off a quick note blessing you for a wonderful holiday.

We are in Los Angeles, celebrating with family and friends. Since our youngest boys are ages 5 and 9, Christmas is a major deal for us. They pump the excitement level up to about a 9!

For me, it has been a big year. One Caribbean island a month for the winter was quite a ride, and I taught two new telecourses this year (my 2nd and 3rd ever). We have a ton of marriages from both, and even babies in the works from the one in February! I am most proud of getting the Coach & Practitioner Success Manual out -- that has been on my Bucket List because I love supporting colleagues.

Everyone is saying that 2012 will be a banner year, and I believe it! I am wishing the BEST for you, and I have a feeling you will see some lifelong dreams come true in the next 12 months.

I am sending you my support for a heart-warming holiday!

love,
Kathryn

PS - I'm teaching a free intention-setting teleseminar for 2012. If you'd like to be a part of it, you can sign up HERE

Love in An Instant

2011-12-03T12:47:00.000-08:00

12/3/11

Thanksgiving in Atlanta

I'm ASHAMED of myself for not updating the Blog more often, but that will change in January when I go to a new, easier format (look back here for that). We've been bopping between Chicago for a wedding, the U.S. South for Thanksgiving, NorCal for book signings and more, but mainly are sticking in LA until the new year. Yes, it's been busy, as usual.

Our Annual Holiday Sale (that so many of you WAIT for) starts Dec 6th and runs for 7 days. It will offer major savings, some cool packages, and we're adding in a free gift or two for any purchaser.

Go to our shopping cart to see the savings during that time.

If you are looking for a career or specialty as a coach, check out our June 2012 Teacher Training while we still have spaces. Because of the easy payment plan, spots are going faster than usual. I'd love to have you be part of this special group that I train, certify, work with closely and give referrals to. To find out more while we still have room, check it out here.

Read on to find out how you can have love in an instant, even over the holidays!

I am blessing your holiday season!

love,
Kathryn

Love in An Instant

Many that I work with have a false idea about how love will happen for them. They think there should be measured, obvious progress that leads in a logical way to love. Wrong! Love simply does not work that way.

Love happens in an instant, and your life is changed for good. What I see happen to those doing my work is that one minute you're in a dating desert and the next, you're wildly in love and cannot believe how well it's going. It could even happen over the holidays, which is a frequent occurrence, so do stay open.

The more that you change your idea about love progress, the quicker that life-changing instant will occur and the more you'll enjoy these, your last single days. Here are some ways to speed up your journey into the arms of your One.

1. Get better at looking for signs of your progress. Your dating dessert isn't so stark if you examine it better. Count changes you see in yourself, your growth, as progress to love. If you feel like you are transforming, rest assured you are in a dynamic process that won't fail you. Let this reassure you that love is fast approaching.

2. Quit beating the drum of lack. Every time that you write on my Facebook wall "he's not here yet" or commiserate with your friends on how brutal dating is, you delay love a bit. You're labeling yourself as a "have not," which is the lowest level of attraction. Love simply cannot happen in this environment. Feel faith, speak faith and remind yourself that love could happen any time.

3.Make it real in your mind. Rather than getting caught up in where you are and how lonely it is (see #2 above), get busy imagining how good it will be when love arrives. Embellish your imaginings, plan for courtship and as you keep your eyes trained on where you're going, you'll get there easier & faster.

4. Enjoy every moment. Even if you're worried about experiencing the holidays alone, look for the fun and connection rather than dwelling on your current state. Remember that these are your last single days, so you need to relish them. Many tell me their last solo holiday is one they remember fondly, because they enjoyed it so well that it helped bring love quickly thereafter.

I cannot WAIT to hear about your instant - that moment that you come together with your One. Because you may have had some bumps on the road or waited a bit longer, you will enjoy love more than anyone you know, and you'll never take it for granted!

The Soulmate Bootcamp was a program I originally developed for my "hard cases," those who were not manifesting love easily. It was wildly successfully and became a myth until we finally released it to the public. It goes on big-time discount on Tuesday, December 6th so mark your calendar to get it if you're ready for love in 2012. here.

Heartbreak Corner: The Attachment Bond

If you are struggling to get over a breakup, be aware that one reason it's so hard to get over it is a thing called "limerance." Psychologists coined this term for the love bond that is addictive. It mimics the strong bond we form with a parent when we are young. Not only is this bond emotional, but it is also chemical in nature, so that it may feel like you're dying or the pain is too much to bear when you try to let go.

There is only one way to break this addiction, and that is to release it, firmly, then bite the bullet and go through the ensuing pain. If you've ever gotten over someone before, you can release this bond, too. The VofA (my nickname for the Voice of Attachment) will tell you that this is your soulmate, that there can be no greater love than this, but the minute you break the bond, those feelings go away.

I support you in breaking this bond and getting on with your l ife!

Attachment to an ex is by far the biggest block people have to love. The easiest path to release and to your One are Kathryn's Releasing a Person and Manifesting Love CD's, experienced in succession. The CD's are available in a package together as downloads. Order this money-saving package of love life boosters here.

In a Relationship? Communication

Communication, keeping your ties steady, is one of the best ways to keep a relationship solid. You two should be able to say most anything to each other, which creates a great closeness that is unshakeable.

If this is hard for you, work on being more honest with your love. And if it's difficult for you to bear honesty from your mate, work on not taking things personally.

Honesty is also an amazing aphrodisiac. If you've held resentment, you may no longer feel so attracted to your love. But the minute you open your heart and share, you will find yourself wildly passionate about him or her again.

To keep your relationship at the highest level or transform it into a soulmate one, the last Chapter of Kathryn’s book Love Will Find You is called A Relationship from Heaven. The book has been called a “marriage saver.”

No Man's Land

2011-09-28T23:59:00.000-07:00

August 29th, 2011

Cover of San Diego Magazine the Week We Were There - ha ha!

Dear One,

It has been super busy, and I apologize for not updating sooner.

There is a period of time that I call no man’s land. It’s the time that starts when you connect with someone interesting up until there is a commitment (if one happens). This is the most crazymaking phase of dating I’ve ever seen (self-induced). If you’ve experienced “no man’s land,” keep reading for some tips on less suffering and more enjoyment.

Here's to a FUN dating experience!
love,
Kathryn

No Man’s Land

The moment that you meet someone interesting, there is a tendency to get a bit crazy. What happens? Hope arises which in turn can bring up vulnerability, fear and anxiety. We used to see people in the Crisis Clinic suffering far too much over a new dating situation.

Because my work sees so much manifestation, we’ve had a rash of “no man’s land” panic lately. Up half the night waiting for a text. Agonizing on whether (s)he’s right or not. An anxiety attack over the thought of losing him while he’s on a trip.

My advice? Calm the heck down. Here’s how:

1. Remember that God doesn’t meet you ½ way or ¾ of the way. You GET your soulmate, no matter what.

2. Remind yourself that we all have different communication styles and some people might not phone as often. It doesn’t mean they’re not interested.

3. Get busy with your life. Do not hover over the phone or keep checking for emails. As things blossom, you’ll have less time, so get your ducks in a row now. It’ll take your mind off the obsessing.

4. Take heart in the fact that you’ve met someone interesting. If you’ve set an intention for soulmate love, it’s already a done deal. This interest – regardless of whether it leads to more – is a sign you’re heading in the right direction.

Bottom Line: don’t let fear take away from your relishing this experience. You get love no matter what, so why not relax into the deliciousness of this interaction?

The Soulmate Bootcamp was a program Kathryn originally developed for her "hard cases," those who were not manifesting love easily. It was wildly successfully and became a myth until we finally released it to the public. Check it out if you'd like to skip no man's land, enjoy dating and head straight into soulmate love here.

The Allure of the Unavailable

2011-07-19T19:41:00.000-07:00

July 19, 2011

My 2nd Birthday :-)

Hi from LA, where it’s so fun to celebrate my and others’ birthdays with family and friends – there’s no place like home!

Newsflash – a recording of my rare FREE teleseminars. on dating is available for a short time. Dating is a subject that has been a sticking point for far too many, and I revealed NEW material that is getting rave reviews. Sign up here to get the recording info access while it's still up.

If the subject of availability has come up for you, keep reading. Unavailability can be attractive for good reason, but it keeps you single if not handled properly.

I hope you’re having a great summer so far and that we speak soon!

love,
Kathryn

The Allure of the Unavailable

Spiritually speaking, we are so deeply hardwired for freedom that it can make unavailable people look good. It keeps US free (yes, this can mean YOU are unavailable!) if we pursue or wait for someone unavailable.

Attracting unavailable people and worse, paying attention to them (as in – giving them the time of day) can delay your journey into the arms of your soulmate. Some tips on dealing with unavailability:

1. When someone says they’re unavailable, they discreetly may be leaving off the words “to you.” Believe them and move on.

2. You may be chronically hanging out with unavailable types, even attracting them, because YOU’RE the unavailable one. If so, work on dissolving your fears about going deep into love so you can be available for the love you want.

3. It’s okay to go slow and make yourself available gradually, rather than all at once. If done not from fear, but from legitimate honoring of one’s self, this is a powerful step. And you may not feel available right away, taking time to warm up and trust your love interest. That’s ok.

4. It’s enticing to dance around with someone unavailable. The longing & obsessing can be enjoyable, in a strange way. And further, the elusive one can become an object to be attained, a challenge. However, this has nothing to do with love – which is why once the object of attention is gained, it can lose the allure.
At its worse, unavailability becomes a game that delays love and while perversely enjoyable, will hijack your beeline to love. The good news is that as you come together with your soulmate, (s)he will be completely available to you and vice versa PLUS the allure is there and proves to be lasting.

To learn to streamline your path to love, don’t miss the FREE Dating for Your One Teleseminar on Thursday, June 29th. Sign up here.

Heartbreak Corner: The Bat

Attachment can sometimes make people self-flagellate. In my June once-a-year Releasing a Person Workshop, a number of people came up to me upset that their ex seemed to be living the high life with their new love, whilst they were suffering badly from the breakup, unable to move on. It made things worse as they tortured themselves with thoughts of their ex in the throes of ecstasy.

Give me a break! They really didn’t know what the ex was enjoying or not enjoying because they were not in the ex’s shoes, but they were using the thought of the ex as a weapon to wallow in their misery. Why do we do this to ourselves? It is more painful than hauling out a bat and beating yourself about the head (seriously).

If you have been guilty of beating yourself up with thoughts of someone else thriving as you suffer, stop that! Put down the bat and learn a new pattern. The best way to do so is to determinedly turn your thoughts back to your own life – to where you want to go and focus on that. It’s the quickest way to move on into your own love dreams, which are even juicier than the ones you’re casting others in (and will happen as you move on).

To further your wish to move on into soulmate love, don’t miss the FREE teleseminar, Dating for Your One Teleseminar, which will assist you in going forward without having a single regret. This time will offer relief from any suffering you’ve been experiencing. Sign up here.

Enrollment Now Open! – Date for Your Soulmate Telecourse
Tuesdays, Sept 13, 20, 27 and Oct 4 plus Bonus Support Class on Oct 11th
This is the first time Kathryn has ever taught one of her popular telecourses on dating.

This course is to change your dating method to one that is effective, targeted and free of any heartache or frustration.

Make This FALL Your Time of LOVE!!

• Not only will you learn the secret to creating your soulmate, you will IMPLEMENT this technique in a supportive, gentle learning environment and out in the world with Kathryn guiding & supporting you

• This process cannot be denied and is tailored for those who are serious about welcoming in love, those who have been blocked or delayed, or haven't dated at all in a while

• Discover the 3 most common dating missteps & avoid them

• Undergo a process of learning to date for your soulmate that we have the luxury of making constant with weekly support and daily exercises that will change your whole experience of dating

• Be guided through that tricky time when you meet someone new into a commitment. This technique has worked for thousands who successfully sealed the deal!

• We are going to have a lot of fun, which is a big component of soulmate love!

Grab your spot quickly because we have to limit the telecourse to 50 people (out of thousands who follow Kathryn's work). The class is already over HALF FULL. Nothing will have the power to hold you back!

To find out more about the course, click here

Being Lonely is GOOD!

2011-06-22T18:00:00.000-07:00

June 22, 2011

My Calvin with Our 2 Youngest for His College Graduation in May!

Wow, it's been busy! I'm right in the middle of my mini U.S. tour, flying out to Seattle tomorrow for workshops and media there.

The good news is that my US events have caused there to be a run on our products and my book is consequently going into its next printing (plus the publisher raised the price!). A "quality problem" to have, as I say.

I hope to see many of you in Seattle or LA for my last workshops of the year: June 24 - July 2nd.

Read on to find out how being lonely can be a positive in your life.

I can tell it's going to be a GREAT summer and I wish nothing but love and fun for YOU!

love,
Kathryn

Why Being Lonely is a Good Thing

If you are single and feel moments of loneliness, this is a good thing. It is indicative that you have a vacuum in your life, a space for your soulmate to come into. Being lonely means that you are wide open for love. This void, though it may feel empty and hard to deal with, is something to be guarded. The temptation may be to fill the loneliness with anything that comes along like a casual date or an old flame, but avoid doing so.

You don't want to start seeing someone just to fill the loneliness. It would be easy for you to try and make someone fit in there, but instead, imagine that this loneliness is a treasured place within you, only to be filled by your One, your soulmate. Treat it as sacred and don't easily let someone into this space. In moments where your loneliness flairs, try the following:

1. Take a moment to be grateful that you feel lonely, knowing that the opening for your soulmate is intact and magnetizing him or her to you.

2. Bless your soulmate wherever (s)he may be, knowing that you'll be together soon.

3. Release any impulse to take a stopgap measure to fill the loneliness such as late night dialing or making a date with someone you're not that interested in. Better to daydream about your soulmate instead.

4. Don't respond to a feeling of loneliness by letting it get you into a desperate state. Desperation repels, and it can lead you to bad decisions.The more you can start labeling your loneliness "good," the sooner you will be with your love, as this loneliness is a powerful attractor for your soulmate.

To take a powerful step toward the love of your life, don’t miss Kathryn’s soulmate workshops in LA and Seattle in the coming 2 weeks. They are once yearly events and have brought love to tens of thousands of people.

Heartbreak Corner: The Biggest Delay to Love

There are numerous things that can delay love for you. In fact, ANY time you have a negative thought about love, you may delay it. But the biggest delay of all is hanging on to a past love.

The attachment that we can get to an ex can be as powerful as that we had to our parents as infants and can be tough to shake. And it can keep you unknowingly UNAVAILABLE for your soulmate.

There is also the tendency to think of a past love as the best you could ever hope for (at least until you meet someone better, your soulmate.) Keep in mind that the best is yet to come, and this faith can make it much easier to let go so you can be free for full-on, 100% right love.

To let go once and for all and quit delaying the love of your life, get the Releasing a Person CD. This work is extremely powerful and has helped thousands to get beyond an attachment and move on to soulmate love. To grab your copy, click here.

Love Life Affirmation

I connect with my soulmate. I commit to him (or her). We are one. I continue to open to love. I release any blocks that I have had to love. I bless my loneliness as good, knowing that I am a magnet for my love. Our life together is beginning now.

In a Relationship? Let his process be.

It is easy to get codependent when you're dating someone or married. You find yourself wanting to fix things for your partner, taking on his or her burdens as your own. Of course, we want to support each other, but you can only do so much, and it's important to let your partner have his process. This can be painful to watch, but next time your partner is in a funk or going through things, let her be.

Believe it or not, the frustration may be serving her in some way you can't understand. Say a prayer for her and hold the space that she finds her way, but don't try to alleviate things for her. This sends a message that is empowering. You know she can find her way on her own, without need for you. It also frees you up to tend to your own life more fully, so that you don't go down the martyr path, an unhealthy place to go in relationship.

Kathryn's Last Workshops This Year

Friday, June 24th: Spiritual Dating Workshop in Seattle. Click here to find out more

Monday, June 27th: Love Will Find You Workshop in Seattle. Click here to find out more

Saturday, July 2nd: Spiritual Dating Workshop in LA. Click here to find out more

Dating Out of Your League

2011-06-08T23:49:00.000-07:00

May 31st, 2011

Julian and Me in a Caribbean Cave

It has been a whirlwind of a month that saw us leaving Antigua to spend our last two weeks in the Caribbean in the Virgin Islands. Six islands in two weeks might have been pushing it but it was great! Then, back to the US after 5 months in the Caribbean to attend my firstborn, Calvin's, college graduation in Monterey (congrats, honey!) and then it was off to Las Vegas to warm up.

I'm now prepping for my Teacher Training in San Diego and my ONLY workshops in the U.S. this year. If you want to do my work LIVE, this is your chance and many are flying in for the events in June. Click here to see the full roster in LA and Seattle and make your plans.

If you are suffering from HEARTBREAK, a DIVORCE or a BREAKUP, don't miss my only 2011 Releasing a Person workshop on Thursday, June 16th. It will be just what you need to move on.

Pretty regularly, the subject of dating “out of your league” comes up for people. It’s a subject I am MORE than happy to help with. Keep on reading to discover how to do that (with a surprise twist).

Hope to see you in June!

love,
Kathryn

Dating Out Of Your League

A term that you often hear in the singles world is dating “out of your league.” If you’ve been doing my work for a while, you can predict what I’m about to say.

There is no such thing as dating out of your league. We are all equals and any concept that negates that truth is doomed to fail. But too many buy into it, getting intimidated by someone they find hot (who by the way, is MOST LIKELY to be your soulmate). Thinking this way needlessly delays love.

The most effective thing you can do to come together with your soulmate is to get RID of limited thinking like this – it can hold you back. How?

1. Shore up your self-esteem. The more you elevate your sense of self-worth (as opposed to tearing your love interest down, something that some dating systems advocate!), the easier it will be to approach and connect with someone you find attractive.

2. Strive to see those you have deemed intimidating as human, just like you. They’re breathing the same air, need to be heard and may just be your soulmate, since one indicator of soulmate love is crackling chemistry.

3. Don’t cast yourself as undeserving feeling like you have to EARN love or bend over backwards to make it work. You deserve love just by your very existence and working for it sets up a bad dynamic.

4. Get USED to connecting with those you find hot. Look into their eyes, give a little smile, perhaps a wink and even say something. The more you practice, the more you’ll be able to realize that no one is ever too good for you.

Upcoming Workshops

Thursday, June 16: Releasing a Person in Los Angeles. The only time Kathryn will teach this VITAL workshop, that has helped thousands of brokenhearted let go, heal & find better love.

Saturday, June 18: Manifest Your Soulmate in Los Angeles

Friday, June 24 Spiritual Dating in Seattle

Monday, June 27 Love Will Find You Workshop in Seattle

Security v Excitement

2011-04-21T12:31:00.000-07:00

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Julian and Me - Antigua Sailing Week

Hi from Kathryn

Hi from Antigua where we are having a ball during the Classic Yacht and Sailing Week regattas! The beaches here are outrageously beautiful and those we've met live fascinating lives.

Have you checked out the free report and audio on becoming a 6 Figure Coach? We’re keeping it up just a bit longer, so you ought to grab it while you can. Check it out here while it's STILL UP if you are unhappy in your own career or want an extremely lucrative new income path.

Many tell me it seems that they’re always dating either someone safe (boring) or someone exciting who is elusive. I have strong opinions on this conundrum. Read on to find out my thoughts.

love,
Kathryn

Security v Excitement

So many lament to me that they either seem to meet someone solid to date or someone exciting, elusive and erratic. It can seem like a standoff between a safety blanket versus wild chemistry. I have a strong opinion on this.

I simply do not believe in tradeoffs. In love, it does not have to be one or the other. Love knows no limited. You CAN have it all. If you find yourself dating either someone dull to you or someone exciting but unavailable, it is most likely that you’re simply not with your soulmate yet. Your soulmate will be someone with whom you have a solid relationship that remains exciting.

Here’s how to discern your best course to soulmate love:

1. If the exciting person you long for is not exhibiting similar enthusiasm for you, let go. Have faith that someone who is both fascinating and crazy over you is in your future. It’s much easier than banging your head against the wall of unavailability.

2. If you’re dating someone who seems solid, secure but a bit boring, don’t give up on it quite yet. Try doing some exciting things together, go deeper in conversation and then gage if the relationship feels dynamic. If it is, the jury should remain out. Sometimes as people open up, the excitement factor heightens.

3. Remember that you never have to settle – for either someone who is boring OR unavailable. Your soulmate will offer you a safe, secure relationship that is also exciting. Be willing to hold out for THAT person. (S)he will be worth the wait.

The TARGET DATING KIT will transform your dating life and show you how to connect to the hottest person you lay eyes on. It reveals a 3 step process to ensure that you date for your soulmate and speed the process of your coming together. To find out more, click here.

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In Honor of June's 2011 Teacher Training Program, we've released a REPORT & AUDIO RECORDING on becoming a 6 Figure Coach.

It reveals secrets on how we've been able to spend the winter checking out one Caribbean island per month.

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Laissez-Faire Dating

2011-04-08T10:41:00.000-07:00

3/31/11

Pirates of the Caribbean, St. Lucia Style

Hi from St. Lucia! We've had a lovely month here and are just about to hop to our NEXT island, Antigua. I have to say that spending the winter in the Caribbean has been amazing.

Do you dread dating and avoid it? Or has your dating experience so far been full of stress? While you DO have to date to find love, the good news is that dating can be delightful, if approached differently. Read on to find out more.

June’s 2011 Teacher Training Program is fast approaching. Want to become certified to teach my work, a lucrative and fulfilling career path? The training is geared to train you not only in facilitating the material but also in setting you up for major success. Check it out here.

I bless you for easy dating!

love,
Kathryn

Laissez-Faire Dating

I took French in school and always loved the term laissez-faire, which means an attitude of letting things take their course. It’s not a bad principle to use in dating – to a point. The goal is to not date long but date well without stressing yourself out. Here are some do’s and don’ts for The Laissez-Faire Dating Strategy.

1. DO kick back and enjoy the ride. Rather than get anxious to immediately find the right person, it’s much more enjoyable to vow that you’ll have fun getting to know people with the faith that your One will show up.

2. DON’T force things. Don’t push. Don’t get desperate. Don’t over reach out. It’s critical not to try to make someone fit when they’re just not IT. And trying to force something that is not going never works. Worse, if you get desperate because your date’s response is underwhelming, you will literally push them away. Desperation repels.

3. DO let a relationship grow naturally. You cannot skip or even expedite the natural process of dating. And getting overanxious doesn’t help. As long as the relationship remains dynamic with both parties interested, you can trust that it will take care of itself. You don’t have to MAKE anything happen.

4. DO let things flow. If you turn in the direction where things are flowing, it’s the fastest path to your soulmate. Even if you have to pull back or wait a bit, your One is worth the wait. When their soulmate arrives, many are taken aback at how EASY things go.

5. DO limit how laissez-faire you get. Don’t just drift along for months or years, knowing it won’t work out or trying to make it fit when it’s not working. Abandon laissez-faire in favor of a DECISION so that you move on into something that’s right once you see it’s wrong. This is where you reach the limit of being laidback. And if you just take what comes your way for fear of being rejected, you probably have a pattern of settling, and this is where you’ll need to learn to be pro-active.

It never hurts to relax. Taking pressure off, flowing downstream is the fastest way to date for your soulmate.

The TARGET DATING KIT will transform your dating life & show you how to connect to the hottest person you lay eyes on. It reveals a 3 step process to ensure that you date for your soulmate and speed the process of your coming together. To find out more, click here.

June Teacher Training

If you are looking for a new career path – a proven 6 figure practice with multiple income streams – there are only A FEW SPACES left in Kathryn's Love Attraction Coach Certification Program this summer. You will get every tool you need to hit the ground running as a Love Coach plus support, affiliation with and referrals from Kathryn. Discounted payment options are available so check it now if you have any interest. www.kathrynalice.com/mentoring/

Recovering from Valentine's Day

2011-02-26T11:37:00.000-08:00

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Boating in Barbados

I hope you had a great Valentine’s Day! As I write, we're just ending our 2 weeks in Barbados, after enjoying Jamaica for 5 weeks. Next up is St Lucia, where we'll spend a month. I have to admit that exploring the Caribbean this winter is the best romantic gift a gal could ask for from her soulmate (thanks, honey!)

Read below to get some tips on recovering from Valentine's Day & moving on.

Some news: the Create-a-Mate Telecourse did fill up with 50+ people within a few days and the work has been exciting for us all. I will try to teach it again in the fall or next year in case you didn't make it in.

Also, my Teacher Training is coming up in June. It's already half full and I've been told it is the richest training program people have ever experienced. Not only do I train you to faciliate my effective processes BUT I give you full business know-how to aim for a 6 figure business from the get-go. We also give you referrals and many chances to step fully into this career path right away. There is a payment plan and discount still available. To find out more, click this link to find out more: Teacher Training Info

I wish you could be with us here in the Caribbean!

love,
Kathryn

Recovering from Valentine's Day

For people who are with their soulmates, Valentine’s Day can be a non-issue. Every day feels like Valentine’s Day, and there are so many occasions – anniversary, holidays, birthdays – that not all need to be super special and some of the most romantic times arise unexpectedly.

Those who seem to suffer the most are people who don’t yet have their Valentine (and I would look at it THAT way – that your Valentine is on the way but not here yet). Why?

If you’re not with your valentine, you can feel left out. People around you might be getting flowers or going out but you’re not.

My Recommendations
1. Remind yourself that when your One comes along, it will make up for every single bad V. Day you’ve ever had. You’ll be too busy being happy to even remember this one.

2. Go ahead and further the “soul call” that I hope you’ve sent (if you do my work, you have) by buying a card or gift for the love of your life in advance. It’s an affirmation for what’s coming and it’s super fun to give your love this gift next year or even on your wedding day.

3. Affirm that by next Valentine's Day, you will have romantic time with your One and be glad this year has passed.

For a bit of cheer, in the event you're still RECOVERING from this holiday, check out my uplifting Valentine's Video by clicking the link to be reassured that love is on its way and you're FINE (the truth).

How to Make 2011 YOUR YEAR for Love!

2011-01-31T10:58:00.000-08:00

January 2011

Hi! We've spending most of January and at least part of February in Jamaica, mon, and enjoying it! Right now, our all-inclusive resort has got us eating & doing too much, but it's all fun and the weather can't be beat. Our eyebrows have all disappeared, and we've got tans, too.

Bringing on Love in 2011!

Are you determined that 2011 is the year you get your soulmate? Or at least hoping? There are ways to ENSURE that it is by doing some strong intention-setting and then backing that up with some changes.

1. Write down what you want in love. Get specific & do this with feeling. Decorate it, light a candle over this intention & bless it.

2. Send love to your One. This person you’re calling forth is out there now, living & breathing & looking for you, too. A soul call, an invitation to join you in your life, is quite powerful.

3. Get hopeful, eradicate blocks. You’re going to have to ensure that you’re open to love. If you’ve been cynical, find some faith that yes, you GET LOVE! (true) If you’re hanging on to a past love, let go into a vision of something better.

You have every hope for love and let’s get determined that this year is IT for you! I am with you.

We still have just a couple of spaces left in my FIRST EVER telecourse on love. Create-a-Mate entailed 4 classese by phone in February and March for the pupose of "creating" your mate. You ought to check it out just to get the incredible stories of people who have used this work to conjure up the love of their life!

Check it out here NOW to get in on it (it's limited to just 50 people and about 45 spaces are already taken): www.kathrynalice.com/create-a-mate

We’ve Opened Enrollment for Our June 2011 Teacher Training

Our June 2011 Love Attraction Coach Training is now open for enrollment and quite a few of the spaces have been taken. This program gets more kudos than any other trainer training for its emphasis not only on schooling you in this magical material that has brought love to thousands but ALSO in making a career of it.

If you are looking for a fulfilling lucrative career that comes with setup, license and referrals, check out the training NOW. You can get an easy 5 payment program with a discount if you sign up before the end of January. Find out more here.

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Holiday Love!

2010-12-29T16:19:00.000-08:00

December 27, 2010

Happy holidays! I hope you're having GREAT ones. We've been at a Palm Springs resort with Jon's family and 3 out of 4 of our boys. Swimming has been great and we actually rode a CAMEL at the Living Desert.

I'm super excited about where we will spend winter, a SECRET we'll reveal later. But here's a hint: it's tropical. Yes, our Portable Lifestyle continues.

Holiday Love

If you’re despairing at being single over the holidays, take heart! It is very common for people to meet their soulmate somewhere along the year end festivities. Perhaps it’s the intensified longing that brings love or the many parties or reaching out that is done during the season. But if you undertake the upcoming days with the right attitude, you may be surprised at what happens. Some tips on making holiday magic happen:

1. Put connection first and foremost. Do everything you can to bring enjoyment to your holidays. This puts you in a magnetic frame of mind & you’ll have fun even if love doesn’t come along.

2. Plan well. Keep your energy positive by setting up some treats for yourself such as spending time with friends, a good novel or even avoiding things that bring you down. Learning to take care of your own happiness is key to attracting love, even if the activity doesn’t seem directly related to meeting someone.

3. Appreciate the Season’s Gifts. Maybe time with family brings up your stuff (& by all means, minimize it if you need to or schedule breaks from them), but there are many things about the holidays to appreciate. Time off from work. Festive occasions. Gifts to unwrap and to give. Revel in the break from routine in any way you can.

I have no doubt that many will be emailing me with their delightful holiday love stories, and I hope YOU’RE one of them!

Holiday Heartbreak

Going through the holidays shortly after a divorce, a breakup, heartbreak or even a death can cast a pall on them. But you can make the best of the time and even find comfort in it. And if you use the above advice to find new love, you wouldn’t be the first to do so even as you grieve.

Don’t expect life to be normal. You won’t be up to snuff, but you can choose a focus to minimize pain.

Being with others and seeking connection with friends, family and meeting new people can help you to quit dwelling on the past.

It is certainly a time for self-indulgence. You’ve never had a better excuse to opt out of things you don’t enjoy or to stay home all day in your jammies watching reality t.v. marathons.

But don’t indulge in a pity party. Do a release and then replace it with hope for your future and some steps in that direction. Feeding the attachment by wallowing in it will put you through needless misery.

Our Releasing a Person CD, available as a download immediately or as a hard copy CD contains the magical process of release that Kathryn is known for as well as tools for staying released and moving on with your life. Learn more about it here.

Have a WONDERFUL holiday, and I'm sending you my support for not only getting through but FLOURISHING in 2011!!

love and support,
Kathryn

NEXT BLOG, I'm going to let you in on the magical Deliberate Creation process that underpins all of my work and that many are using to create a "pinch me" life. In the meantime, our new Deliberate Creation Program is NOW RELEASED and it’s the first time this revolutionary program is being made available as a product. It’s on sale and order it now to set an intention for motoring into your goals for 2011. This downloadable includes the Goals Gone Wild! Game board & pieces to make fulfilling your intentions into a fun, lifelong game. Check it out at this link and get set up for big leaps in 2011.
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We’ve Opened Enrollment for Our June 2011 Teacher Training

We've just made our June 2011 Love Attraction Coach Training available for enrollment. This program gets more kudos than any other trainer training for its emphasis not only on schooling you in this magical material that has brought love to thousands but ALSO in making a career of it.
If you are looking for a fulfilling lucrative career that comes with setup, license and referrals, check out the training NOW. You can get an easy payment program with a substantial discount, too. Find out more here.

The Eel

2010-12-03T21:17:00.000-08:00

November 2010

The Eel

Some of the worst cases of attachment I've seen come from people who got hooked by THE EEL.

Definition of The Eel: someone who seems in your grasp, but then slithers away just when you thought it was going somewhere, only to reappear again as you give up hope.

This is akin to the mouse-cheese experiment I talk about in my Releasing a Person CD. The mouse would hurt itself when sporadically offered the cheese, whereas both the mouse who regularly got cheese and who never got cheese accepted the situation calmly.

If you are being distracted by an eel, I invite you to adopt my rule concerning eels. Don't touch! Eels seem to somehow NEED to keep you dangling, and it can be terribly exciting playing this game, but it doesn’t produce a soulmate relationship.

My Advice: recognize when you're swimming after an eel and change course. Yes, letting go of the hope will hurt, but every time someone swims in a different direction while doing my work, they end up finding their soulmate quickly. If you keep your eye on the love ahead waiting for you, it will make the release much easier.

If you are in doubt about whether it can work out or not (and in most cases, you are simply in denial), I suggest this technique for seeing if this relationship is salvageable.

• When the suspected eel lets you down -- disappears, doesn’t call when (s)he says, suddenly wants to cool things down -- give him or her notice. You can do this playfully, so it doesn’t become heavy, but draw a boundary here. “Flakes are just not my favorite cereal, if you get my drift. I’m liable to brunch elsewhere if it gets too flaky around here.” This takes back your power, while keeping it light.

• Keep track with a three strike maximum limit. If eel-like behavior shows up three times, this is a trend. It’s too much to ignore. Unless you want to continue in a frustrating, uphill battle to make this person become reliable, I would bail at this point.

• Do some release work, and remind yourself that your soulmate will leave no doubt that they want to be with you and they will be even hotter to you than the eel has been.

To save a full 30% (!) on many of our proven effective tools to release, to welcome in soulmate love & go beyond The Eel, look for our BIG HOLIDAY SALE from Wednesday, December 8th - Wednesday, December 15th. Use the code HOLIDAY10 to up to THIRTY PERCENT discount & get FREE SHIPPING on orders over $100. Click here to shop NOW!

Breaking a Bad Dating Pattern

2010-09-30T12:30:00.000-07:00

9/30/10

Hi! Vacationing AFTER Labor Day is the best. It’s peaceful and uncrowded. We are still in Palm Springs soaking up the sun, taking a breath after a busy summer and deciding our next moves in life. Triple digit temps are forcing us to have what we call "three bathing suit days:" hours in the pools & lazy river. Hot weather is not so bad when you can just throw on a bikini and go swim.

Fall has arrived and you can probably feel change in the air (well, except that summer has FINALLY just arrived in SoCal - LOL!) School has started, we’re all getting back to work and it’s a chance for a fresh start. If you are ready for love and need to ditch an old dating pattern, now is a perfect time to set that intention.

Read on to find out how to dissolve even the most stubborn dating pattern you’ve had.

Breaking a Bad Dating Pattern

If you have had a bad dating pattern – like going for unavailable or hurtful people, having chemistry with those who are bad for you or being closed due to past hurt – you are not alone. I have worked with thousands of people with similar patterns, and it has been gratifying to watch them dissolve unproductive patterns to date for their soulmate.

There is a way to shift your preferences and get rid of sabotaging dating habits once & for all.

1. See reality and know you can do SO much better. If someone isn’t completely in to you, admit it. If someone pulls you down or creates misery for you, admit it. No longer try to romanticize something that is undeserving of you and vow to wait for better: a mutual, supportive love.

2. See yourself better. As you realize how special and sacred you really are, you will no longer allow anything unworthy of you. You will have better boundaries, not accept someone who treats you casually or worse, puts you down. You will no longer get hooked into an “eel” or waste time with someone who is not The One, keeping yourself free & available for your soulmate.

3. Imagine yourself with soulmate love. The key to moving beyond your past, what you have known so far, and into true love is to make where you are going more real than where you are now. Fantasize about what you want and keep it in mind so you won’t be tempted to settle.

As you shift, the people you experience chemistry with will change. And the reality of the love you GET will outshine even the richest fantasy you’ve had about someone from your past. (This is why people who do my work describe constant “pinch me” moments as they manifest soulmate love!) Keep your eye on the prize and it will materialize much sooner than if you continue to spin your wheels.

For a 30 day program to blast away old dating patterns plus a proven dating system to ensure you’re dating for your soulmate, check out the TARGET DATING KIT. It's especially designed to hone your dating skills so that you're not spinning your wheels or getting hurt any longer. This info makes dating fun and assures the happy ending that you want. To find out more and set yourself on the soulmate path, click here.

I bless you for elevating to untold heights in love this fall!

love,
Kathryn

5 DRASTIC Dating Mistakes!

2010-08-10T23:37:00.000-07:00

8/10/10

The WAY you date is the single biggest factor between you and your soulmate.

Dating badly can keep you in limbo – with no soulmate and all kinds of drama, rejection, frustration and heartbreak.

Not dating at all usually means you’ve shut down out of fear of the process. That’s understandable if you’ve dated like most people do: a pretty excruciating ordeal.

There is a very simple way to date effectively for your soulmate & nothing less. It is a dating method that tens of thousands of people have learned from me to produce the love of their lives in record time. This kind of dating is easy & fun and QUICKLY leads to your One.

Below I outline 5 Drastic Dating Mistakes, but to learn to not only avoid these mistakes but also dive into an effective method of dating for your soulmate, get our brand new Target Dating Kit. To find our more visit this link: http://www.kathrynalice.com/target-dating

5 Drastic Dating Mistakes

1. Putting too much pressure on one date. If you build your hopes with each date, it can get in the way of your enjoyment of the person, create awkward exchanges and crush your hopes when it doesn’t work out. There is a different way of dating that is even-keeled, long-sighted and can actually make it fun.

2. Rejection Thinking If you look hard for rejection and take a blow each time it doesn’t work out, thinking that you’ve been “dumped,” then you are interpreting badly. There is no rejection, only the wrong fit. Your soulmate will be better than anyone who supposedly rejected you. In the meantime, you are putting yourself through needless drama for no reason.

3. Not Using Your “Power of Veto” Dating is a process of selection, and every single person knows this. You don’t need to feel guilty if there’s no chemistry for you. And you don’t need to settle for someone unavailable, unfaithful or just not right. Saying “no” is the first step to what you want.

4. Making It a Numbers Game Many think if they kiss 100 frogs, they’ll find their prince. They go through the motions to up their odds for love. The truth is that there are no odds. When you date spiritually, there is no random chance. There is only dating for your soulmate, a technique that eradicates dating drudgery completely and effectively pulls your One to you quickly.

5. Elevation Most who do my work end up with someone so hot to them that their biggest issue is learning it’s not too good to be true, accepting their good. There is a tendency to put people you find attractive on a pedestal and think they are out of your league. When you do this in dating, you count out the people most likely to be your soulmate. You need to learn an egalitarian method of dating, in which you see yourself as good enough for anyone (true).

To completely avoid these mistakes and learn a method of dating that is fun (your final single days upon which you fondly look back upon) and more importantly, effective, check out our brand new TARGET DATING KIT

This process has worked for tens of thousands of happily-in-love people.

With the Target Dating Kit

, learn to:

date for your soulmate
transform dating into a wonderful process you one day look fondly back upon
make these your last single days

If dating has been an issue for you – whether you HATE dating or just haven’t dated in years – check out the Target Dating Kit. I’m so happy to finally be able to make this info available to you! For more information, click here.

Soulmate Level

2010-07-21T00:36:00.000-07:00

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

Hi! I’m just about to celebrate a major birthday. Family are flying in each day and we are taking the party to Palm Springs this weekend. But I wanted to say “hi” and give a shoutout to the many of you who just discovered my work at Agape’s bursting-at-the-seams workshop last Friday (150 people showed up).

Now that you’re open to soulmate love, read on to find out how to keep it at that level.

Summer is heating up, and I bless you for a hot love life!

love & support,

Kathryn

Soulmate Level

Soulmate level is the place you want to be in your energy & in your expectations to attract the love of your life (and nothing else). Once you open to it, the fastest way to manifest is to keep it at that level. Many of you who write without instant manifestation have reverted to old ways, where soulmate love is less likely to happen.

Here are tips on how to stay at Soulmate Level:

1. Stay hopeful. When you first are exposed to my work, you get very positive about love. Unfortunately, friends can naysay you into doubt again. Or your own pattern of negativity may reassert itself. Continue to find tools to stay upbeat about love and you will remain a powerful beacon of light for your One.

2. Continue to release anything that has blocked or delayed love from you. Likely culprits are an old love you’re hanging onto, limiting beliefs about romance or a pattern of self-judgment. If you’re done any of my work, you know how to release. Keep re-releasing until any delay is gone.

3. Don’t look too hard or do back flips for soulmate love. If you are trying to be everywhere to increase your chances for romance or doing soulmate exercises to the point of exhaustion, you are working it to the point of disconnect. Be mellow, do what is fun and remember there are no odds about soulmate love because it is not random chance that brings you together. It is a magnetization that cannot be denied.

4. Quit digging up that plant! For most who do my work, soulmate love shows up out of nowhere. One minute it looks like a dating desert, the next minute you are happily in love. So if you bothered to go by “appearance” and got discouraged because nothing had shown up yet, you wasted your time. In fact, you can shoot yourself in the foot by digging up the plant too early to see if it’s blossoming. In others, making an assessment that it hasn’t happened and concluding it won’t is counterproductive because you get discouraged. Better to see with the eyes of faith, notice how positive you remain and conclude that change is happening on the inner NOW and love is on its way to you.

Soulmate & Dating Intensive Workshop

Kathryn's last U.S. workshop for 2010 is in just a few weeks.

In the Soulmate & Dating Intensive, learn to:

date for your soulmate
transform dating into a wonderful process you one day look fondly back upon
make these your last single days

If you are not manifesting love easily, you don’t want to miss this event. It is the ONLY chance you will have to do this work LIVE with Kathryn this year. The in person experience is extremely powerful, and this is a small, limited enrollment event that goes deep. We have added a payment plan option, as well. Set an intention for soulmate love NOW by enrolling. For more information, click here.

I Get Tired Just Reading Your Personal Ad

2010-06-11T14:27:00.000-07:00

Friday, June 11th, 2010

Better use for a Great Wall of China cannon

It has been such a whirlwind lately that I've just about lost my voice, so forgive me for not posting sooner. After seeing Tears for Fears in Manila & visiting the Great Wall of China en route to the States, we did a 3 week tour of the South, seeing family & friends in Georgia, S. & N. Carolina, I did my FIRST Teacher Training EVER in San Diego & now, we're home in LA for the summer. Boy, do I need a breather!

I hope to see many of you in my LIVE workshops this summer in LA, including the upcoming Releasing Intensive on Saturday, June 26th.

People often ask me about personal ads as though getting it right is the Holy Grail. Read on to find out my response.

I Get Tired Just Reading Your Personal Ad

I read the funniest blog the other day, complaining about the high octane personal ads that sound exhausting. The writer just wanted to go lie down.

This brings to mind a false assumption many believe about dating. Compatibility is a fake idea. Seriously! Studies show over & over that what people say they want and what they actually want are two different things. There is more of a chemistry/soul recognition happening than someone who looks good on paper in each instance.

So, take the pressure off of getting your personal ad perfect or ticking off a list of qualities with each prospective partner. Better to just be in a good mood while writing your ad and abandon loading it up with all your activities.

And as far as dating goes, look for an initial connection. It doesn’t have to be complete excitement at first, because for some chemistry opens up gradually. But you have to have some attraction, which is an indicator there may be something there.

Free Teleseminar

On Monday, June 14th, I'm doing a rare, free teleseminar called LETTING GO: A Primer on Release. It's a great way to start out the summer -- getting released so you can dive fully into summer fun. To find out more & sign up (hundreds signed up within the first two hours!), follow this link: http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#1350

Talk to you soon, and I hope to see you while I'm in the U.S. this summer!

lots of love,
Kathryn

PS: The Releasing Intensive is projected to sell out next week due to limited attendance. If you have major release issues or find yourself in a lot of pain, go ahead & reserve your spot NOW here:

http://www.kathrynalice.com/events#1400

The HARDEST Part of Dating

2010-04-14T05:45:00.000-07:00

Wednesday, April 14th, 2010

Hong Kong (Victoria) Harbour

Hi! We are back from Hong Kong! As promised, I’m posting some photos here. It was an amazing trip, though a bit chilly (we bought jackets!). Jon and I are scooting to explore 4 other Philippines islands before we leave, and we all are dropping by Beijing on our way back to the U.S.

Julian and Me, Hong Kong Doubledecker

If you are interested in our wonderful life on the road, check out our website http://www.theportablelifestyle.com/. We recently put together a discounted package of the favorite products and there are two FREE teleseminars there, as well. It’s easier than you think to go virtual and be free to travel wherever you want (really – we’ve been doing it for almost 3 years!).

What’s the HARDEST Part of Dating?

After working with tens of thousands of people for years on dating issues, I have no doubt what the most difficult aspect of dating is. It is so painful for some that they eschew dating altogether even if it means they won’t find love.

THE ANSWER: The not knowing as you go through the process. Yes, being vulnerable, a requirement for love, and not being able to foresee how love will show up drives people mad. And for no good reason!

How to get over this serious difficulty? Change your thinking about it.

1. Realize it’s exhilarating. Part of the excitement of falling in love is the unpredictability and the anticipation. No one would skip this part when they finally meet their One.

2. Deepen your faith. Remind yourself that love is a done deal for you and will show up in the perfect way (even if your love life looks DOA right now). It will make this process less maddening. You do get love for sure – remember that!

3. Remember: that you can’t skip the process but the end result is worth it. 99% of those I work with would probably skip dating if they could and just go get married (seriously). But of course, this isn’t possible. Even if the next person you date is your soulmate (& by all means, affirm this if it’s what you want), you still have to undergo the getting-to-know-you phase, otherwise known as dating.

I bless you for finding an easy way to date – the payoff is worth it!

Our Soulmate Bootcamp has been the most useful tool to help even the hardest case open up and bring on love. Let this daily program shepherd you through every step into the arms of your One. It’s on sale right now with $60 worth of extras included. To see it, click here.

Talk to you soon!

love,
Kathryn

Kids Stuff! Ocean Park, Hong Kong

NEWS

RELEASING INTENSIVE: We’ve just added my Releasing Intensive to our calendar. It's the ONLY time in 2010 I’ll work with those ready to move on after heartbreak, paralysis or deep-seated attachment patterns – It has extremely limited space, so if you need to release, do look into being one of the only 50 folks who get a place in it here.

JUNE TEACHER TRAINING; We have exactly TWO SPACES left in my upcoming June Teacher Training. There is still a payment plan available plus discount, so if you are ready for a new career with my guidance and support, check it out now HERE while you can still get in.

3 Bad Reasons to Date On-Line

2010-03-23T22:02:00.000-07:00

March 23, 2010

At Our Boracay Villa

We are heading to Hong Kong for Spring Break and are unbelievably excited about it. It has been a lifelong dream of mine to go there, and our children have been asking to go to Hong Kong Disney for three years.

We're taking our nanny, who has never flown before. She'll give us a chance to do some grownup things while she takes the children and is accompanying us on all of the tours and fun. She's excited, too!

So many people ask me: "Do I have to get on-line?" My answer is below.

3 Bad Reasons to Date On-Line

Do you have to on-line date? No, you don't. A minuscule percentage of people meet their soulmate on-line while 80% of those who say they're with their soulmate found them right under their noses. Here are three BAD reasons to put your profile on a matchmaking website.

1. Your friends tell you it's mandatory. Your friends don't know what is right for you, and on-line dating is not for everyone.

2. You are desperate & worried you'll never meet someone. Try to wait until you're centered to make such a decision. Nothing good comes out of desperation.

3. You think on-line is the perfect place for your touched-up photo & carefully crafted profile to land the love of your dreams. Please. While almost 90% of people on-line supposedly fudge their profiles with an old photo or misrepresent their age, being honest is a statement to the world that you are enough as is (and the quickest way to find your soulmate on-line).

Two GOOD reasons to on-line date?

1. To tell the Universe that you're ready for love.

2. To see the abundance of available, appealing single people out there.

As millions know, attracting love does not require on-line dating EVER, but if you do so, do it for the right reasons and with the right energy.

For powerful dating tools that will put your energy right for instant love attraction, check out our Awesome Teleseminar Package before it is retired THIS FRIDAY – it is on sale at 50% off. You will be so steeped in magnetic love energy that your dating life will be energized.

That's it for now. I'll post Hong Kong photos next time. I hope you have a wonderful Easter and great Spring Break!

love,
Kathryn

Valentine's SOS

2010-02-10T21:05:00.000-08:00

Cruising around Boracay while our eldest, Calvin, visited in January

Feb 11, 2010

It has been a WHIRLWIND lately and sorry I haven't written. We had the BEST time in my soldout Deliberate Creation Telecourse, and I've just returned to Boracay from Australia, where I taught a few packed workshops and did some interviews.

When it is SO snowy in the U.S., I wish you all could don your bikinis and join us here in the sun.

It is almost Valentine's Day and so of course, I'm doing lots of media and want to remind you that even if you're single it can be an enjoyable day.

So, here's my popular video on the subject:

VALENTINE'S SOS

Are you single and kind of dreading Valentine's Day? You are not alone. I have tons of emails every year from people in your same boat so take comfort from that. I'd like to help by reminding you of the following:

1. Valentine's Day was created by a chocolate company! It is a manufactured holiday and while, yes, it's fun to send love reminders to people, it is JUST ANOTHER DAY. When you are in love, you celebrate regularly and don't need a special day to remind you. And when you're single, you may think, "bah, humbug!" and that's just fine.

2. The majority of Valentines and even flowers go out to non-sweethearts. More flowers and remembrances are sent and received by students, teachers and family members than by romantic partners. So claim this holiday for YOU whether you've met a romantic soulmate or not. And remember that there are nonromantic soulmates such as pets, parents, friends, children and even siblings so tap into that love energy which connects you to the same unconditional love that you will feel when you come together with your One.

3. Make a point to send out love to the soulmate you haven't met yet. Buy them a card to give them later or spend a few moments thinking of them and sending a message to them on the inner.

4. Every one of us has been the only office worker NOT to receive flowers on an occasion. This day is in NO way a competition to see if you're loved or not. Of COURSE you are! So remove your ego from being in such a competition and if anyone wants to rub it in, feel bad for them that they would need to resort to such a low vibe.

5. When you are with your One, it will make up for EVERY bad Valentine's day you ever had. If this one isn't that great, it will get healed in the future, I promise!

Have a good one, and I bless you for love beyond your wildest dreams!

love,
Kathryn

Something To Do NOW!!!

2009-12-30T06:17:00.000-08:00

12/30/09 Boracay, Philippines

Happy almost New Year! We are in the middle of all of the action on White Beach in Boracay for a few days, staying right on the beach and it is pretty fun. We're living in bathing suits and alternate between lounging, playing games on the beach and taking a dip.

Holiday Love!

As opposed to last year -- when we stayed in with family for New Year’s Eve -- we’ll be on a yacht with friends, watching fireworks go off all over this 4-mile-long beach! A perfect way to shepherd in a new decade, no?

Here's something you MUST DO today or very soon.

DO YOUR INTENTIONS! The beginning of a new decade is a POWERFUL time to affirm what you want. You can ride on the vortex of CHANGE -- extremely strong right now -- to watch your dreams happen.

If you took the free teleseminar I did Monday night, you know to pick 4 things that you really want in 2010 – no holds barred - write them down and hold them as sacred.

Light a candle over them. Then at midnight on New Year's Eve, make a toast and bless these intentions (you don’t have to disclose what they are if you don’t want to).

If you want to dive in further to make your intentions happen quickly (especially if they’re big or if you have been stuck and not manifesting), I’m teaching a 4 week telecourse on Deliberate Creation, which includes a private mini-session with me and therefore is very limited in enrollment, in January & February.

In just 24 hours, half of the slots already got filled, so if you want to dive further into making your intentions happen in breakthrough fashion, then look into joining us while we still have spaces available at:

www.kathrynalice.com/deliberatecreation/

See you soon! And I bless your 2010 to be OFF THE CHARTS!!

love,
Kathryn

Santa Arrives by Boat on Boracay!

A Soulmate for Christmas

2009-12-11T20:54:00.000-08:00

December 12, 2009

The holidays here on Boracay are very different. Santa and Christmas lights are juxtaposed with 80 kitesurfers, 20 windsurfers, a handful of snorkelers and a few boats out the window.

Julian puts the "little mommy," as he calls it atop our tree w/ dad's help

We have a FAKE tree (no real ones here), that we had to island hop to obtain, and the kids are loving it like it's the real thing. 3 year-old Julian is really "getting" about Christmas now and every day he asks, "Is Santa coming today?"

A SOULMATE FOR CHRISTMAS

Are you ready for soulmate love ASAP?

I have a suggestion. It may sound crazy but believe me, I’ve seen crazier and it all WORKED! When it comes to love, doing something different can be helpful.

SO the suggestion? Give yourself a soulmate for Christmas. Seriously. You’ll be hearing more about DELIBERATE CREATION from me in the coming weeks, but giving yourself a soulmate is an example of it.

How?

1. Buy yourself a present or make one that represents your soulmate. It could be a fake engagement ring, a photo of a person you find hot (though of course don’t start thinking it has to be this exact person – just this or something better), or something else symbolizing your special present.

2. Wrap up the gift and put a note on it: “from me to me” or “to me, from the Universe.” Like that.

3. Unwrap the gift on Christmas or whichever holiday you celebrate.

4. Say to yourself: “This is it. It’s done!” and do FEEL it.

5. Get excited!

(If you are already with someone but it has problems, then give your partner this gift and vow to elevate it into soulmate love!)

It may sound corny, but this stuff works. Ask the many people who did something like this (even in a big-time dramatic way, which you know if you’ve heard me on the radio lately).

Now, your job is to skip through the holidays knowing that the love of your life awaits you.

Have a wonderful holiday season, and relish your cold weather. It is 80 degrees here every day and while it's lovely, we do miss winter season for the holidays (a tiny bit).

love,
Kathryn

FAST NOTES:

FIRST TEACHER TRAINING: Want to become my apprentice? It’s the first time I’ve ever done this but next year, I’m doing a teacher training for a handful of those who want to become a certified Love Attraction Coach. If you are ready for an amazing career, check it out here.

FINAL DAYS: HOLIDAY SALE: Our holiday sale is in its final days. Our love products make a great gift (and you can get them wrapped). Three packages are on sale for a bit longer. See the sale here. They’ll go to regular price shortly, and it’s a good time to get them for less and affirm soulmate love for you in 2010!

FREE TELESEMINAR: I am giving a FREE teleseminar on Dec 28th on DELIBERATE CREATION for 2010, followed by a 4 week workshop where you can get a mini coaching session with me as part of it. Grab your spot (very limited enrollment for January's telecourse) here.

Bless Your Bad Love Life!

2009-11-16T01:41:00.000-08:00

My Boys in a Boracay-Style Tricycle

November 16th, 2009

Hi and welcome to my new Blog! I’ve switched to this one, because it’s easier and I’ll be able to post more easily & more often.

My family and I are in Boracay, Philippines for the winter. I’m working on my new book and we are enjoying the heck out of this charming tiny tropical island which is just 4 miles long and ½ mile wide.

Bless Your BAD Love Life!

Those who start off with a bad love life are often the ones who end up the happiest doing my work. Why is this?

• When you're willing to wait for love, you demonstrate at the highest level, not settling just for the sake of having someone in your life.

• Going through a great deal to find love, having a series of disappointing dating experiences puts your desire for your true love on HIGH. As long as you don't sink into despair or cynicism (something my work prevents), then this passionate wanting brings to you the love you've wanted.

• Finally, when you've had some hard knocks in love or NO love life at all for a period of time, you never take your soulmate for granted, once they show up. You have more appreciation for this amazing relationship and end up happier than anyone you know.

If you're ready to do serious work to call forth your soulmate, The 30 Day Soulmate Bootcamp is still on SALE as a downloadable for a short time longer. Get it with 4 hot extras now here!
I can’t believe the holidays are almost here. It’s our third time to put together some special packages at substantial discounts for the season. You can even order them gift-wrapped or purchase downloads to get them immediately. To see them, visit this link:

More soon – take good care!

love,
Kathryn