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Q: Kathryn, I think I have bad timing.
I broke up with my boyfriend two
weeks ago. And now the holidays are here.
I’m feeling so sorry for myself and
am tempted to give in and call him.
Even though he would not talk about a
future with me.
I want so much more but I find myself
counting down the days until Christmas and New Year are over.
I honestly don’t know if I’m going to
make it through. I’m crying every day and just need something. Can you
help?
A: I’m so sorry you are suffering but break-ups don’t always
conveniently fall between March and October, like they ought to!
So, let me help you make it easier
for yourself and even use this time to sow the seeds for your Real love, your
soulmate.
And let me ask you a question:
If I had a crystal ball and could
tell you, that love was on its way – that you would meet someone more dazzling
than you’ve ever been with who loves you like crazy and after this, they would
never leave your side and you would have years and years of amazing holidays
together – would that help?
Because we can make that happen!
And we can even start on it now!
And the hope for that -- the faith
that it’s coming – can carry you through the holidays.
Rest assured you WILL get the love
you want.
And you’re better off free now if it
wasn’t going to work with your b.f.
So here are some tips to get you
through this time and even USE IT to open up to the real love of your life
• The first thing to do is to do some good releasing work. Let go! The
attachment is what makes the pain so much worse. Then, we can get busy with the
replace step.
• Do plan some things to do. Reach out to friends and
supportive family so you’re not home moping the whole time.
• Find some good entertainment – good movies or books to
pile up and distract yourself.
• Give yourself a good gift – maybe a massage or something
you’ve wanted. Self-care & indulgence are especially good right now.
• And buy a gift or card for your soulmate that you will
give to him at a special time (I gave Jon the one I’d bought on our wedding
day).
• Finally just try to hang on till it’s over. It’s really
only about a week to grin and bear it, and then the holidays are DONE.
• Use the holidays to work on your love life. It’s a great
time of seeing people at events. So many more folks are out & about, seeking
to connect, and I’ve had more than romance happen for a client during this time.
You never know! You could meet
someone over the holidays, too.
But whether it’s now or soon, your
love life will be good. You will find your soulmate.
This is for SURE!
I’m blessing you for the soulmate
love you so deserve! And do tune into my upcoming free class to set a powerful intention for love
in 2017.
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