One of the biggest questions I get from singles is how to connect with someone super attractive to them.
No matter how outgoing you are, you can get tongue-tied when
faced with a hottie. Fear of rejection or sheer intimidation can kick in.
If you do not learn to connect with those you are attracted
to you, you rule out those most likely to be your soulmate. So, we HAVE to
tackle this issue!
Here's my easy two step formula to learning to connect with
those you are attracted to:
1. Boost yourself up. Remind yourself you are not chopped
liver. Put yourself up on that pedestal with this hottie, and remember that
they are lucky to connect with you. You are a good conversationalist, and have
something they want.
2. Be sensitive to this person. Rather than trying to come
across as a big wit, put on your listening cap and think about who this person
is and what (s)he might need. Ask him or her a question. Bring them out, and
you don't have to worry about what to say.
You don't want to approach them with any big agenda. Instead,
the sole intention is to connect. The rest can come later.
I have had a phenomenal success rate with the shy and the
introverted by using this method, which plays to their strengths.
You will get better with practice, so my challenge to you is
to try this method on 3 people you are attracted to this week.
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