Sorry to keep you in suspense about the third deadly mistake that guarantees you won’t meet anyone

But this is the BIGGEST one -- and deserves a whole email of its own

I had one of my Aruba attendees meet someone as if she had ordered him up

He is really into her. It’s looking very hopeful. They fit like a glove together and are totally infatuated with one another

He’s calling her and texting all the time. He is the hottest guy she has ever had contact with
And guess what? She had to do this very thing I’m about to tell you that she learned during the Aruba retreat

If she had not done this thing, she still would not have met him

This is someone who has been single a long, long time with a lot of misfires

And what she learned made all of the difference
She met him organically – out in the world as she was going about her day – as most people do
No matching service could have done better than how perfect they are for each other!

So here’s the mistake she was making and what we had to do to correct it

The Third Big Mistakes that Keeps Love From You

Mistake #3: Not knowing how to connect with the one you want

Do you know what to do when you encounter someone attractive to you? How to spark their interest?

Do you know how to take it deeper and create a bond with a person you’re dating and very into?

Do you know how to ensure that it stays sizzling so there’s no chance you’ll get disappointed?

Most people don’t. And that’s where I can help

With my Aruba client, she had always shied away from attractive guys, sure they wouldn’t be interested in her

And I had to remind her that the hottest person you encounter is most likely to be your soulmate

Because you and your soulmate will have crackling chemistry

Most people tend to get intimated by someone that wows them, tongue-tied or worse, just shrink into the wordwork, sure that someone like that would not be interested

This was Aruba gal's pattern. She would not even talk to a guy she found hot. It was easier, less risky
So it’s no wonder she had always settled and has been single for far too long

But after practicing with me, what did she do?

She returned this hot guy’s gaze, smiled and used the technique we had worked on in Aruba

It worked like a charm! He came up to her to talk, and before she knew it, he was asking for her contact info and texted her two hours later

Now, they are infatuated, having long phone conversations and going on dates every chance they get

He has already sent her flowers, and she is having to get used to how much this attractive man wants to give to her

She continues to do what I taught her, and it is showing no signs of fizzling

She learned how to keep it hot and growing, something you must do to take the relationship the whole way in. And it continues to roll out perfectly
This is something I’d love to teach you, too

Love can happen just as quickly for you, as you learn a new way of connecting that brings the hottest ones right to you, gets you into a dating relationship and takes it the whole way – as far as you want to go with it

I know you can’t wait to be in your soulmate’s arms for good, and I’m committed to helping you get there!

By and far the biggest question people ask me about love is: “What am I doing wrong!?

So I’ve made a list of the biggest mistakes people make in trying to make a love connection

I’m all too familiar with these because I’ve helped so many people – even those who have been frustrated for YEARS – find love
We HAD to do something differently to get a different result. And you will need to as well – though it doesn’t have to be super hard

The 3 Biggest Mistakes that Keep Love From You

Mistake #1: Hoping something will happen on 
its own

Far too many people just give up trying or worse, just keep doing what they’re doing without making a significant change

They imagine something happening (which is a good start)… but never actually do anything, just hoping that the chance will “come up”

It doesn’t work that way. You have to be willing to change something, to try something new if you are serious about finding love

Your pattern will continue, and you’ll waste yet more time. Not good

Mistake #2: Making yourself easy to be overlooked . . . even invisible

A script is an energy you carry that makes people notice you -- or not -- and informs them on how to treat you

People can read your script in an instant, as we demonstrate in my live workshops. It’s just crazy how this works – how much you can know about a person before they even open their mouth to speak

Want to know what your script is? Just look at how you’ve been treated

Are you noticed? Or are you ignored? Are you honored? Or have you been disrespected? Do your relationships last or fizzle?

In dating, transforming your script is essential if you’re getting bad results

If you have hidden your inner light, it shows. And it’s hard to attract someone you would actually want

If you have confidence issues, it will repel those you want the most

So we have to deal with this mistake and change it

We did an exercise that began to change your script. But it takes a concerted effort to change it for good and consequently the results you’re getting

And by the way, changing your script can save a relationship or pull in the person you're with now if it's starting to wane. That has become one of my specialties when working with people live

Mistake #3: . . .

I’m going to tell you Mistake #3 – which deserves an entire post to itself – in my next email

It’s an overlooked part of dating that you REALLY need to know about

It makes the difference between remaining single and frustrated and sealing the deal with the one you want, that person who sings your heart, who fascinates you and really sees you and gets you

This hot person wants you and only you and desires to make you his or her forever love

I know you can’t wait to be in their arms for good, and I’m committed to helping you get there!

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Q: Kathryn, the last 4 guys who were asking me out were not ones I could ever imagine myself with. Just not what I want, and I’d be settling if I went out with them

And then I have met two really hunky men in the past couple of weeks who would not give me a second glance

I even tried to get their attention and suggested going for coffee. But nada. Zip. No reciprocity and I felt like a dolt for even asking

What am I doing wrong that I never meet anyone who I like who would be into me? I really don’t want to have to settle for a guy I’m not into

A: Sorry you are having this experience

It sounds to me like you are not up to speed with the ones you find attractive

You probably have a “script” that say “I’m not worthy” or “You’re way above me”

I find this is common

We would need to change this to get different results because the one that is attractive to you is most likely to be your soulmate since you have crackling chemistry together

It can take some getting used to – connecting with someone who you may have thought was out of your league

But we have to bridge this gap for you to welcome in the love you want

I bless you