May 31st, 2011

Julian and Me in a Caribbean Cave

It has been a whirlwind of a month that saw us leaving Antigua to spend our last two weeks in the Caribbean in the Virgin Islands. Six islands in two weeks might have been pushing it but it was great! Then, back to the US after 5 months in the Caribbean to attend my firstborn, Calvin's, college graduation in Monterey (congrats, honey!) and then it was off to Las Vegas to warm up.

I'm now prepping for my Teacher Training in San Diego and my ONLY workshops in the U.S. this year. If you want to do my work LIVE, this is your chance and many are flying in for the events in June. Click here to see the full roster in LA and Seattle and make your plans.

If you are suffering from HEARTBREAK, a DIVORCE or a BREAKUP, don't miss my only 2011 Releasing a Person workshop on Thursday, June 16th. It will be just what you need to move on.

Pretty regularly, the subject of dating “out of your league” comes up for people. It’s a subject I am MORE than happy to help with. Keep on reading to discover how to do that (with a surprise twist).

Hope to see you in June!

love,
Kathryn

Dating Out Of Your League

A term that you often hear in the singles world is dating “out of your league.” If you’ve been doing my work for a while, you can predict what I’m about to say.

There is no such thing as dating out of your league. We are all equals and any concept that negates that truth is doomed to fail. But too many buy into it, getting intimidated by someone they find hot (who by the way, is MOST LIKELY to be your soulmate). Thinking this way needlessly delays love.

The most effective thing you can do to come together with your soulmate is to get RID of limited thinking like this – it can hold you back. How?

1. Shore up your self-esteem. The more you elevate your sense of self-worth (as opposed to tearing your love interest down, something that some dating systems advocate!), the easier it will be to approach and connect with someone you find attractive.

2. Strive to see those you have deemed intimidating as human, just like you. They’re breathing the same air, need to be heard and may just be your soulmate, since one indicator of soulmate love is crackling chemistry.

3. Don’t cast yourself as undeserving feeling like you have to EARN love or bend over backwards to make it work. You deserve love just by your very existence and working for it sets up a bad dynamic.

4. Get USED to connecting with those you find hot. Look into their eyes, give a little smile, perhaps a wink and even say something. The more you practice, the more you’ll be able to realize that no one is ever too good for you.

Upcoming Workshops

Thursday, June 16: Releasing a Person in Los Angeles. The only time Kathryn will teach this VITAL workshop, that has helped thousands of brokenhearted let go, heal & find better love.

Saturday, June 18: Manifest Your Soulmate in Los Angeles

Friday, June 24 Spiritual Dating in Seattle

Monday, June 27 Love Will Find You Workshop in Seattle