June 22, 2011

My Calvin with Our 2 Youngest for His College Graduation in May!

Wow, it's been busy! I'm right in the middle of my mini U.S. tour, flying out to Seattle tomorrow for workshops and media there.

The good news is that my US events have caused there to be a run on our products and my book is consequently going into its next printing (plus the publisher raised the price!). A "quality problem" to have, as I say.

I hope to see many of you in Seattle or LA for my last workshops of the year: June 24 - July 2nd.

Read on to find out how being lonely can be a positive in your life.

I can tell it's going to be a GREAT summer and I wish nothing but love and fun for YOU!

love,
Kathryn

Why Being Lonely is a Good Thing

If you are single and feel moments of loneliness, this is a good thing. It is indicative that you have a vacuum in your life, a space for your soulmate to come into. Being lonely means that you are wide open for love. This void, though it may feel empty and hard to deal with, is something to be guarded. The temptation may be to fill the loneliness with anything that comes along like a casual date or an old flame, but avoid doing so.

You don't want to start seeing someone just to fill the loneliness. It would be easy for you to try and make someone fit in there, but instead, imagine that this loneliness is a treasured place within you, only to be filled by your One, your soulmate. Treat it as sacred and don't easily let someone into this space. In moments where your loneliness flairs, try the following:

1. Take a moment to be grateful that you feel lonely, knowing that the opening for your soulmate is intact and magnetizing him or her to you.

2. Bless your soulmate wherever (s)he may be, knowing that you'll be together soon.

3. Release any impulse to take a stopgap measure to fill the loneliness such as late night dialing or making a date with someone you're not that interested in. Better to daydream about your soulmate instead.

4. Don't respond to a feeling of loneliness by letting it get you into a desperate state. Desperation repels, and it can lead you to bad decisions.The more you can start labeling your loneliness "good," the sooner you will be with your love, as this loneliness is a powerful attractor for your soulmate.

To take a powerful step toward the love of your life, don’t miss Kathryn’s soulmate workshops in LA and Seattle in the coming 2 weeks. They are once yearly events and have brought love to tens of thousands of people.

Heartbreak Corner: The Biggest Delay to Love

There are numerous things that can delay love for you. In fact, ANY time you have a negative thought about love, you may delay it. But the biggest delay of all is hanging on to a past love.

The attachment that we can get to an ex can be as powerful as that we had to our parents as infants and can be tough to shake. And it can keep you unknowingly UNAVAILABLE for your soulmate.

There is also the tendency to think of a past love as the best you could ever hope for (at least until you meet someone better, your soulmate.) Keep in mind that the best is yet to come, and this faith can make it much easier to let go so you can be free for full-on, 100% right love.  

To let go once and for all and quit delaying the love of your life, get the Releasing a Person CD. This work is extremely powerful and has helped thousands to get beyond an attachment and move on to soulmate love. To grab your copy, click here.  

Love Life Affirmation

I connect with my soulmate. I commit to him (or her). We are one. I continue to open to love. I release any blocks that I have had to love. I bless my loneliness as good, knowing that I am a magnet for my love. Our life together is beginning now.

In a Relationship? Let his process be.

It is easy to get codependent when you're dating someone or married. You find yourself wanting to fix things for your partner, taking on his or her burdens as your own. Of course, we want to support each other, but you can only do so much, and it's important to let your partner have his process. This can be painful to watch, but next time your partner is in a funk or going through things, let her be.

Believe it or not, the frustration may be serving her in some way you can't understand. Say a prayer for her and hold the space that she finds her way, but don't try to alleviate things for her. This sends a message that is empowering. You know she can find her way on her own, without need for you. It also frees you up to tend to your own life more fully, so that you don't go down the martyr path, an unhealthy place to go in relationship.

Kathryn's Last Workshops This Year

Friday, June 24th: Spiritual Dating Workshop in Seattle. Click here to find out more

Monday, June 27th: Love Will Find You Workshop in Seattle. Click here to find out more

Saturday, July 2nd: Spiritual Dating Workshop in LA. Click here to find out more