July 19, 2011



My 2nd Birthday :-)

Hi from LA, where it’s so fun to celebrate my and others’ birthdays with family and friends – there’s no place like home!

Newsflash – a recording of my rare FREE teleseminars. on dating is available for a short time. Dating is a subject that has been a sticking point for far too many, and I revealed NEW material that is getting rave reviews. Sign up here to get the recording info access while it's still up.

If the subject of availability has come up for you, keep reading. Unavailability can be attractive for good reason, but it keeps you single if not handled properly.

I hope you’re having a great summer so far and that we speak soon!

love,
Kathryn

The Allure of the Unavailable

Spiritually speaking, we are so deeply hardwired for freedom that it can make unavailable people look good. It keeps US free (yes, this can mean YOU are unavailable!) if we pursue or wait for someone unavailable.

Attracting unavailable people and worse, paying attention to them (as in – giving them the time of day) can delay your journey into the arms of your soulmate. Some tips on dealing with unavailability:

1. When someone says they’re unavailable, they discreetly may be leaving off the words “to you.” Believe them and move on.

2. You may be chronically hanging out with unavailable types, even attracting them, because YOU’RE the unavailable one. If so, work on dissolving your fears about going deep into love so you can be available for the love you want.

3. It’s okay to go slow and make yourself available gradually, rather than all at once. If done not from fear, but from legitimate honoring of one’s self, this is a powerful step. And you may not feel available right away, taking time to warm up and trust your love interest. That’s ok.

4. It’s enticing to dance around with someone unavailable. The longing & obsessing can be enjoyable, in a strange way. And further, the elusive one can become an object to be attained, a challenge. However, this has nothing to do with love – which is why once the object of attention is gained, it can lose the allure.
At its worse, unavailability becomes a game that delays love and while perversely enjoyable, will hijack your beeline to love. The good news is that as you come together with your soulmate, (s)he will be completely available to you and vice versa PLUS the allure is there and proves to be lasting.

To learn to streamline your path to love, don’t miss the FREE Dating for Your One Teleseminar on Thursday, June 29th. Sign up here.

Heartbreak Corner: The Bat


Attachment can sometimes make people self-flagellate. In my June once-a-year Releasing a Person Workshop, a number of people came up to me upset that their ex seemed to be living the high life with their new love, whilst they were suffering badly from the breakup, unable to move on. It made things worse as they tortured themselves with thoughts of their ex in the throes of ecstasy.

Give me a break! They really didn’t know what the ex was enjoying or not enjoying because they were not in the ex’s shoes, but they were using the thought of the ex as a weapon to wallow in their misery. Why do we do this to ourselves? It is more painful than hauling out a bat and beating yourself about the head (seriously).

If you have been guilty of beating yourself up with thoughts of someone else thriving as you suffer, stop that! Put down the bat and learn a new pattern. The best way to do so is to determinedly turn your thoughts back to your own life – to where you want to go and focus on that. It’s the quickest way to move on into your own love dreams, which are even juicier than the ones you’re casting others in (and will happen as you move on).

To further your wish to move on into soulmate love, don’t miss the FREE teleseminar, Dating for Your One Teleseminar, which will assist you in going forward without having a single regret. This time will offer relief from any suffering you’ve been experiencing. Sign up here.

Enrollment Now Open! – Date for Your  Soulmate Telecourse
Tuesdays, Sept 13, 20, 27 and Oct 4 plus Bonus Support Class on Oct 11th
This is the first time Kathryn has ever taught one of her popular telecourses on dating.

This course is to change your dating method to one that is effective, targeted and free of any heartache or frustration.

Make This FALL Your Time of LOVE!!

• Not only will you learn the secret to creating your soulmate, you will IMPLEMENT this technique in a supportive, gentle learning environment and out in the world with Kathryn guiding & supporting you

• This process cannot be denied and is tailored for those who are serious about welcoming in love, those who have been blocked or delayed, or haven't dated at all in a while

• Discover the 3 most common dating missteps & avoid them

• Undergo a process of learning to date for your soulmate that we have the luxury of making constant with weekly support and daily exercises that will change your whole experience of dating

• Be guided through that tricky time when you meet someone new into a commitment. This technique has worked for thousands who successfully sealed the deal!

• We are going to have a lot of fun, which is a big component of soulmate love!

Grab your spot quickly because we have to limit the telecourse to 50 people (out of thousands who follow Kathryn's work). The class is already over HALF FULL. Nothing will have the power to hold you back!

To find out more about the course, click here