November 9, 2012

Cuddling at the Pumpkin Patch Farm
I hope you are doing well wherever you are & whatever your weather is doing. While we've been getting some rain in SoCal, where we've settled in for the holidays, our East Coast friends have been suffering with so much worse, and our prayers continue to be with you.

Next week, a miracle is occurring. I’ve got TWO free events in one week, and I hope you can come to at least one of them.

Occasionally, I get to mentor folks, and my only 2012 "business" teleseminar is coming right up next Wednesday: “3 Easy Ways to Jumpstart Your Practice.” If you’re at all interested in passive income, you should be there. To gain access, sign up here:

The other free event is a live soulmate workshop in my home town of Venice on Sat, Nov 17th. I’d love you and many other lovely singles to be my date that night. I like supporting independent bookstores and YOU. To find out about this free event (which will be crowded – get there early!), go to this link, and remember just to SHOW UP, no registration required.

Read on to find out my take on competition in love. And I hope to see you somewhere or another next week!


Competition in Love

I once worked with a woman who grew up on competition. She was a competitive swimmer as a teen from an over achieving family, and everything was turned into a horse race.

Sure enough, when it came to love, it always seemed that she was vying for a guy’s attention. Yet more proof that what you BELIEVE acts as true until you adopt a better belief.

The fact is that competition and love don’t mix. Even the IDEA of competition in love puts you at the lowest rung of attraction – one where soulmate love can’t happen – something you well know if you’ve ever heard me teach my 3 Levels of Attraction material (a recording that comes with the Soulmate Bootcamp.)

Competition will not produce soulmate love. Period. So with this client, we had to work on getting rid of a deeply engrained paradigm surrounding competing. Over and over again, we reiterated the fact that her soulmate would see only her. No one else would stand a chance with this hunk.

One date told her she was not as pretty as his ex. Out the door he went!

Another seemed to get off on pitting her against other females. Next!

Finally, a very attractive man made no bones about the fact that he was into her. She could not believe the “luck,” and had to get used to his undivided attention. He outshone anyone she had ever dated, and finally, she knew for sure that competing was not a part of real love. The two are now married.

To learn more about the 3 Levels of Attraction, don’t miss my rare, free live workshop on Saturday, Nov 17th in Venice, California. To find out where and when, visit this link:

(Just show up but come early -- there will be a crowd) 

Heartbreak Corner: The Ex is Dating 

While we are on the subject of competition, let’s talk about how this relates to your ex. So many I’ve worked with have made the mistake of thinking that their ex’s new love has something they don’t. They compare themselves unfavorably and feel inadequate.

Remember this: there is no rejection, just the wrong fit. If your ex was not your soulmate, it would never have worked out. There is nothing wrong with you! And you are not less-than!

If you have thought this or are thinking it now, work on your insecurities. You need to see how precious and lovable you are.  And once you are with your soulmate, you’ll see that in his or eyes, you can do no wrong.

Let me quote my old therapist Joyce Arohnson: “don’t let anyone take away your self-image.” Recovering from heartbreak is bad enough but piling on false ideas of your own inadequacy can produce needless misery.

I invite you to remember that you are more than enough, and a break-up has nothing to do with your supposed flaws.

In a Relationship? Jealousy 

A little jealousy can spice things up in a relationship. A LOT of jealousy means you’re insecure: particularly when your mate is giving you no reason to be green-eyed. Rather than get suspicious or ask for reassurance from your mate, curing jealousy is an inside job. Work on shoring up your own self-image.

Remember why your love fell for you in the first place. List the many reasons others have said they adore you. Add in your achievements and the things folks say make you special. Make note of all of the good times you've shared so far with your One, and regularly remind yourself: "I am a catch. I'm perfect, lovable and more than enough."

Overcoming jealousy can take some doing. Chip away at it, and you will gain new faith in both yourself and your love.

Upcoming Events

FREE Mentoring Teleseminar for Coaches, Healers, Practitioners or Anyone who Would Like to Make Passive Income. 

Live call on Wednesday, November 14th from 6-7:15 pm PST

"3 Easy Steps to Go Full-Time" -  Become a Master Practitioner

From time to time, Kathryn mentors other practitioners, healers and coaches on how to succeed.

This is a rare offering of her expertise. She is honored to help you step fully into your calling.

Join hundreds of fellow coaches & practitioners for this enlightening teleseminar.

immediately boost your number of paying clients
 solidify a practice + income streams to support you
  learn how to lay in passive income right away
 skip unnecessary steps that waste time
 the shortest route to full-time
 how to magnetize your clients & customers
 subtle marketing that you can line up with

Participants will receive two bonuses to help you embody this info.

To register for this FREE event NOW, please visit this link:


Free Workshop & book-signing in Venice, CA
on Saturday, November 17th: 7-9pm

"Call Forth Your Soulmate" -   Everything you've been told about dating is wrong!

learn how easy it can be to find love
 enjoy an evening with other great singles
 discover how to stay at the soulmate level of attraction
 find out what has delayed your journey into love
 dissolve any delays or blocks to your One
 undergo a secret process to magnetize romance
 quit sabotaging yourself

Don't miss this rare, FREE chance to experience Kathryn's
teachings. There will be teaching, discussion, Q & A,

This Saturday night may change the rest of your life.

Other conscious singles will be there, as well. Arrive early. Space is limited, and a crowd is expected.

Mystic Journey Bookstore
1319 Abbot Kinney Blvd.
Venice, CA 90291
+1 (310) 399-7070

Find out more here