Why have I never found the right person?!

Q: Kathryn, I am guilty of always settling in love. I recently broke it off with a guy I just don’t have chemistry with even though he seems perfect on paper

My friends think I’m crazy but I just want someone that I can’t keep my hands off

Is that wrong?!

My issue is that I never seem to attract the ones I like. Many times, I’m just so intimidated they don’t notice me

Am I destined to always be with someone I’m not wild about?

Could I ever find a boyfriend who I actually have chemistry with?

A: The very definition of soulmates is that you have crackling chemistry

So let me reassure you that you DO get this – a man who you lust for, one in which you can feel the electricity between the two of you

He can’t keep his hands off of you. And you feel the same

You want to eat him up with a spoon :)

Here’s what it sounds like you’ve been doing wrong

1. You seem to have an idea that hot guys are out of your league

• And that would be why they intimidate you

• With this attitude, you count out the hot ones automatically

• They won’t notice you nor be attracted to you

• You simply cannot get what you feel you don't deserve

2. With that belief that hot guys are better than you, your connecting with them is probably non-existent or really bad

• I’ve had clients who felt like there was a wall between them and people they find attractive

• The risk of actually reaching out to them seems huge

• Until this belief is dealt with, nothing can change and you’re stuck with those you settle for, which is not good for either one of you

3. There is a way to overcome this issue easily, to reprogram your beliefs and the resulting actions so that with just a small signal, you can have anyone you want cross a crowded room to speak with you

• It doesn’t matter if you’re not the ideal weight or high up on the attractiveness scale

• That really has nothing to do with it

• When I taught this technique to a client I was working with, it changed everything for her

• She literally had never had guys notice her or chase her down for her number

• It took a very short time for us to that to change

• The first party at which she tried out this technique saw guys buzzing around her, begging for her number

• She had to get used to this, because she’d experienced it, and at this point, she was no spring chicken either

• But that didn’t matter. It’s not about your age, your weight, your physical condition, what you look like or anything external

• It’s about something you already have that you just have to claim and activate within

I bless you for finding that hot guy who was meant for you

He’s out there! As you do this work, you two will unite and the seventh honeymoon will be hotter than the first :)