Q: I have followed your work for several years and it has been quite helpful. However, I still have not found love.  For ten years, I was a puppet on a string but that has since ended (thankfully), and emotionally and mentally I have moved on.  I have started to be more open and even signed up for online dating even though I hate that medium.  

But nothing!  Nothing in reality or virtually is coming my way and I don't know what to do to change that.  In addition, my high school crush has shown some interest but I am not interested.  He is a great guy but we are very different and, now, grown-up.  But I feel this is the only thing coming my way and since I am out of options then maybe I should take it.  I don't know what to do.

Thank you for your help.  

A: I have to first applaud the good work you've been doing. You got yourself out of the dysfunctional relationship and now have a clean slate, so that's amazing progress on your part.

What I advise you to do is to NEVER SETTLE. For whatever reason he's not of interest, it's a huge disservice to him to have him be someone you settle for and to YOU for thinking this is all you can hope for.

Here are some tips on what to do to rev up your love life:

1. Try to ignore the dating desert you're currently in. It's immaterial, just a temporary appearance.

2. Start thinking of a time when you did have more of a love life happening. As you do, you invite that energy back in, and it's a powerful step.

3. Start working on your Level of Attraction. That is EVERYTHING. The reason we have so many people who've found soulmate love after years of despair is that my work gets them to a new place where love can easily come in.

This is equally true for you, and you're just not there yet

A very positive step you can take to set an intention to get your love life going is to sign up for my upcoming free class "Become Irresistible".

As you learn what I teach there, you'll be picking and choosing between several hot men and won't even remember any sort of dead love life.

Chin up - you have good days ahead!