Love repellent #3 can make you and your soulmate be like ships passing in the night
THE LOVE REPELLENT
What is this failure to connect that will repel love?
It's not looking in people's eyes
- Especially if it's someone they find hot (most likely to be your soulmate)
- If you don't connect or actively avoid it, it's impossible to meet your soulmate
- The first thing we learn in my ABC Connecting formula is how to properly look someone in the eye
- One shy student I trained in this technique can get anyone she wants to cross a crowded room to talk to her
- Learning to connect like you are looking into their soul is wildly powerful
- And if you don't know how to do this, you might as well hang a "not available" sign around your neck
THE ANTIDOTE
How to look in someone's eyes magnetically?
Here is the antidote:
1. Start practicing way before you meet someone interesting. Look into the eyes of the grocery checker, your pregnant co-worker and anyone else you encounter
2. Practice looking into their eyes and really seeing them for just a few seconds
3. Did you ever wonder how babies know to look at you right in your eyes? And so does your dog!
4. If you're sitting at a traffic light, isn't it weird that you look at the driver in the next lane, they will feel your gaze, turn their head and look at who is staring at them?!
5. Looking at someone is powerful. You don't want to be creepy, but just a few seconds and people will treat you much differently
6. Try it starting TODAY so you are in practice when your love comes along
SHE FOUND A LOVE FOR THE AGES
One super shy woman signed on as my client
This is the first thing we did -- learn to look in peoples' eyes, which was extremely hard for her
But she got good at it
She noticed she got more popular at work and was making more friends
This led to her being invited to a dinner party with a lot of show biz folks
One guy came in late, plopped himself in front of her and not looking up, start wolfing down food
When he glanced up for a second, she realized he is a pretty well-known celebrity
She almost froze, but remembered all of the work we had been doing
So rather than do nothing, she muttered "You have beautiful eyes," to him, half joking
He said, "really?!"
And she looked at him with the gaze we had been practicing, really looked into his eyes
"I looked into his eyes, and they WERE beautiful. They really were!! I felt I could see his soul in that moment, and I think he recognized me, too."
They chatted a while at the party, and she gave him her number before leaving to get some shuteye before work
Her phone rang at 4 a.m.
It was this celebrity, asking her to go out on a date that night
She said "yes". They went on the date, and have been together ever since
The two are now married!
And all of this came from her learning to
(This guy's friends were astounded. They never thought he'd settle down. But now the two have been married for quite a few years)
YOUR HOMEWORK
In the next day or two, start looking people right in the eye
Be interested in trying to see their soul for a moment
Yes, you may become super popular and need to learn boundaries
But you will be open and ensure that you don't miss your soulmate
Just a glance or two makes people feel seen
And it will open many doors for you including the one right into the arms of your soulmate
Stay tuned for the Love Repellent #4 in next week's email. This repellent will make you choke on a date like nothing else. It is one of the biggest revelations of all time to many now on my wall of weddings.
Learning will make all of the difference in your ability to get to the second, third, fourth dates and beyond
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